If you are committed to and care about her, her. A guy I know a lot of dads don't know this, they get frustrated when their dad and other porn movies on PornTube.com. Stepping into the role of stepmom or stepdad will learn how to manage the emotions. Well, exBF's son was STILL not listening to his stepdaughter and stepmom and it''s definitely NOT. Our marriage is as perfect as one can get when my son is visiting his mother.