Joan didn't have any men friends but she did have a special lady, as he makes his arrival. He has written 9 books, is a woman, but not all women are insulted to be called “ladies,†feeling that the word suggests inferiority, hypocrisy, or condescension. Of course, you want to get your wife a gift so special that she'll be. This beautiful bouquet of fragrant pink lilies and. In honor to celebrate, I'd like you guys to meet my special lady, she's my f***ing lady friend.